Sounds like we had very parallel marital experiences and very parallel reasons for divorcing. I have a group of women friends who gather in my living room every Wednesday after my kids go to bed, and they are what has kept me going this past year. I might feel compelled to start dating at some point, but I really have no interest right now. I think as a society we place far too much importance on romantic intimacy. Plus, it's far more likely that a man is going to deplete me rather than support or fulfill me. Thanks, solidarity, and best of luck in your journey!