Oh Mercedes, this is so honest and so good. We are at somewhat similar stages of parenting (my kids are 11 and almost 8) and I wonder about so many of the questions you pose here. In fact, my cousin's fiancé (who is in law school) texted me a while back to warn me that it's becoming increasingly common for children to sue their parents based on things they've posted about them online. The thing is, our stories are usually not just *our* stories because usually someone else is wrapped up in it, too. I never refer to my kids, stepson, partner or other family members by name and don't post photos of them, but that certainly doesn't answer all the morality questions you pose here.