I'm curious -- from this side of things, do you feel like you had a good idea of what parenting entailed before you had kids? Because I sure didn't! Not so much the parenting part of it, more the lack of social support. I talk about this in another story, When I “Chose” Motherhood, I Didn’t Choose This: https://keralataylor.medium.com/when-i-chose-motherhood-i-didnt-choose-this-7906658d682d