After being one of the first people at my college to propose sexuality as a spectrum, not a binary, I'm embarrassed by how long it has taken me understand gender in the same way. But now that I've stopped being defensive and started being curious, I'm hungry for perspectives like yours. I haven't read the article you referenced but I won't go looking for it. I'd rather learn from the lived experiences of those who have questioned their gender identity and are willing to share their stories. Thank you!