PinnedOkay, Okay, I’m On Substack NowMedium, I’m not leaving you yet. But I‘m cheating on you, just so you know.Apr 11, 202327Apr 11, 202327
What Distinguishes the Men Who Get It From the Men Who Don’tMany men who claim to be feminist allies are actually part of the problemFeb 411Feb 411
The Stories We Tell Ourselves About Marriage and HappinessWhen a social scientist “proved” that married people are happier, the media had a field day. But are we even asking the right question?Jan 2164Jan 2164
“Just Do Less” — And Other Unhelpful Tips for WomenThis advice is not as empowering as it’s made out to beDec 10, 202417Dec 10, 202417
That Day I Went Crazy and Ended My MarriageThe all-too-familiar story that denies women their fury and painNov 12, 202465Nov 12, 202465
The Cognitive Dissonance of Modern MotherhoodOn reconciling my maternal instincts with a world that dismisses and denies themOct 22, 202448Oct 22, 202448
The Choice That Pro-Choice Voters Don’t Talk AboutAll women should be able to opt out of motherhood, if they so choose. But is this choice always an empowering one?Oct 8, 202429Oct 8, 202429
The Relationship Advice That Drives Me NutsThe devaluation of women’s time and labor is not a “story we’re telling ourselves”Sep 24, 202451Sep 24, 202451
Why I StayedSome dynamics of my marriage were unique, but I stayed for the same reasons so many women staySep 10, 202451Sep 10, 202451