PinnedOkay, Okay, I’m On Substack NowMedium, I’m not leaving you yet. But I‘m cheating on you, just so you know.Apr 11, 202327Apr 11, 202327
That Day I Went Crazy and Ended My MarriageThe all-too-familiar story that denies women their fury and painNov 1248Nov 1248
The Cognitive Dissonance of Modern MotherhoodOn reconciling my maternal instincts with a world that dismisses and denies themOct 2245Oct 2245
The Choice That Pro-Choice Voters Don’t Talk AboutAll women should be able to opt out of motherhood, if they so choose. But is this choice always an empowering one?Oct 830Oct 830
The Relationship Advice That Drives Me NutsThe devaluation of women’s time and labor is not a “story we’re telling ourselves”Sep 2452Sep 2452
Why I StayedSome dynamics of my marriage were unique, but I stayed for the same reasons so many women staySep 1049Sep 1049
I Should Have Braided My Daughter’s HairWhite mom, Black hair, and the human need for ritual and connectionAug 2625Aug 2625
How Mothers Unwittingly Perpetuate Patriarchal Gender NormsAnd how we can interrupt these deeply ingrained assumptions and behaviorsAug 750Aug 750
The Unexpected Joys of Solo ParentingWhen you’re already used to carrying the emotional and mental load, solo parenting can feel… liberatingJul 2320Jul 2320
What Feminist Movies & Shows Keep Getting WrongThe entertainment industry’s depictions of motherhood remain woefully incompleteJul 1630Jul 1630