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That Day I Went Crazy and Ended My MarriageThe all-too-familiar story that denies women their fury and painNov 12, 202462Nov 12, 202462
The Cognitive Dissonance of Modern MotherhoodOn reconciling my maternal instincts with a world that dismisses and denies themOct 22, 202446Oct 22, 202446
The Choice That Pro-Choice Voters Don’t Talk AboutAll women should be able to opt out of motherhood, if they so choose. But is this choice always an empowering one?Oct 8, 202429Oct 8, 202429
The Relationship Advice That Drives Me NutsThe devaluation of women’s time and labor is not a “story we’re telling ourselves”Sep 24, 202451Sep 24, 202451
Why I StayedSome dynamics of my marriage were unique, but I stayed for the same reasons so many women staySep 10, 202450Sep 10, 202450
I Should Have Braided My Daughter’s HairWhite mom, Black hair, and the human need for ritual and connectionAug 26, 202425Aug 26, 202425
How Mothers Unwittingly Perpetuate Patriarchal Gender NormsAnd how we can interrupt these deeply ingrained assumptions and behaviorsAug 7, 202449Aug 7, 202449